Wedding.... / 5:01 PM
Congratualations to the newly wed on 03-06-2009
Attended a fren wedding on a weekday....i guess dis is my first weekday dinner that i have attended....went to the wrong place...haha....tot its the place that i feel quite memorable...that we spend quite sometime together chating...nice chat...though there is no place to seat...but the quietness...the ambience....but end up its some where furthur up...erm....somewhere at the golf course
My job that day is to send those "jiu gui" home....one got so drunk that he shitted on his pants....and he kept apologizing...which no choice i still have to send him home as promised...but on that day itself we can onli smell it...but didnt noe what happen until the following day...he told another guy wat happened then i got to n0e the whole truth.....lol...and there is stain left in my car...yuckS!!! and i didnt clean it away until the next morning...faint....coz by the time i home its 3am in the morning already....though i m nt tired but i m n0t so on to go clean..i onli leave it to air...sadded...hope the smell is not in my car anymore
04-Jun-2009
Went to get some cosmetics product....and i received an sms...i wonder should i be happy to receive or so i be angry...i duno wat u want....u dun wan mi to leave u for good happily?? or u wan me to stay by ur side to be upset?? ....my sis said...though adam and her are together for 3 years...just even 2 days he go on field camp where he cant contact her she dun feel good adam feels the same way too....yet u can tell me u r n0t someone hu will wants to contact each other everyday?? and u said unless ur frens can see the change in me then u will wan to accept me?? ...are we together becoz of ur frends or becoz u really love me?? Do you even n0e i nid to force myself to smile even though the feeling in me is extremely terrible??
I showed her the sms...she say she feel like giving him a slap...after that i told her...If things are so easy to let go i wun be so upset already...then she say..."i guess the person i should slap is you". sigh...
someone told me dis "Being a gal...one should noe when to let go and when to grap it tight..." but i lost control of the situation again...he even used a fren whom i always hope we can be together but end up failed to quote it as an example why our relationship failed...
For your information...that fren n u are not the same in many ways...1st....me and him right from the start are just fren but me n u are in a relationship....2nd....right from the start he already say its impossible...its all a one sided affair...
Why our relationship failed? reason is becoz u gave me the feeling that you are someone hu will take care of me....hu will take care of me irrgardless of any circumstances....the u that i like is u understand wat i want...u treat me like a little princess...but everything is all wrong....coz all the good that i remember abt u does not happen anymore....u said those where past...
The good that i remembered....the things that makes me fall so deep:
1.)the moment i step into ur car...u will past me the yellow pillow....times when i feel upset i hug tight on the pillow n u kept quiet beside me waitin for me to tell u why i m upset.... (yes ..dis was long ago.....so long that its was during the days when just got to n0e u)
2.)No matter how bad i treat u...u didnt get angry with me..dis pointer means everything already... something that i feel extremely bad....one new year...u hurt ur back...so painful that u nid to slowly move urself in n out of the car...but u still agree to drive my mom sis n i to pray...but i just cant be bothered about u...even when i reach home i didnt even say a thank you or bid u good bye...but u didnt leave me alone...u continue to contact me ask mi out...(yes...i admit i take you for granted...so all dis while i noe i have take u for granted too long so i give in alot to dis relationship....but u?? juz push mi away too many times...i m upset....i get moody easily...i cant get to slp even though its 3am in the morning already...when at customer site...i keep yawning....)
3.)In my memory...u contacted me almost everyday....so on days when u did not contact me i missed u...but i didnt tell u...i didnt dare tell u coz i dun wan to end up its a one sided affair again...on my birthday...u celebrated with me...after that u held my hands...but do u n0e..i force myself to push u away...i n0e i hurt u...but i m n0t sure at that point of time wat i want..but i n0e u have already somehow affected me in someways...i told geraldine abt dis before...abt my uncertainty....from then till now...i took up the courage to accept a new relationship...a new chapter of my life...but somehow....we didnt get together at the begining it was a sign that we are not fated...2008 xmas and countdown...u didnt look for me...do u n0e...i feel very upset?? becoz i wanted to spend the time with u....sigh...probably all fated...after all the things that have happened yet i still wan to challange fate...how will i be able to win?? n now..i m the only person challenging fate...i wun be able to win definatly
05-jun-2009
u nv get out of my head at all...probably i should be happy...that i got stuck at w0rk...but i m so stupid....stuck at w0rk till 12+ am...reach home get things done abt 1+ le...i went to turn on the computer...saw ur updates....feel like i have fallen off the stairs....i start to get upset again...seeing yourself enjoying ..yet i m the onli person feeling upset...sigh....probably like wat u said..u will be more happy like that...then we will remain as it is...
06-jun-2009
went to baby shower...saw a fren that i have long seen....he changed gf already...shock...seems like human really got to move on...i so much wanted to contact u...but i guess i should not...becoz if he really finds me important...he will look for me...he will want my accompany...he will not mind to bring me along to mix with his frens....juz like dis fren hu bring along his new gf...to mix with his frens...but apprantly....the 3pointers that i have said is not true to him...so m i really important to u?? guess nt...
Since young...when i m upset i will write in a diary...after writing in the diary i feel so much better...now since internet is so wonderful....when i m upset i will come here to write...at the same time write abt somethings that have happen recently...yup....thats why end up my blog will onli have those that i m upset...n those days when i m happy?? coz when i m happy i dun haf the time to blog....sigh